April 4, 2014

April 4, 2014

yourcaptains asked: Hey dad, Why moving in before marriage isn't recommended? Wouldn't it be better to know what the person you're marrying is like before actually marrying them? Thank you

Are you saying it is impossible to know someone without moving in and sleeping together 3-4 times per week?  If you don’t feel the person is marriable within the first 90 days and instead are trying to make it work, chances are you aren’t going to have one of the ‘10%’ marriages that function as soul mates.  You don’t get used to your soul mate over time.  They either are or they aren’t…and if you meet them, and I pray you do…this will become crystal clear.  I’m not saying you can’t find a suitable person to get along with and marry and live somewhat happily ever after, but life is too short to settle or figure out over some long period of time.  Soul mates know instantly.  Promise. - Dad

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